Many times one of the most important changes a person must
make in order to deal with life when stuff happens is a change in attitude. How many of you have heard the comment,
“That person has an attitude problem”?
It’s easy to recognize a good or bad attitude in other
people, but it’s not so easy when it comes to
judging yourself. Judging your attitude is very important. If you
want to change your life, you must consider changing your
Your attitude is the ultimate weapon in the battle for
strengthening relationships, gaining that competitive edge,
and getting back on track. To succeed in life and overcome
difficulties, you must learn how to use your
best attitude to influence other people in a positive way.
For example, when you interview for a job, you must
influence the interviewer in order to get that job. How does
one usually get the job? A major key is for the interviewer
to see that the applicant has a positive attitude. If
the position is available and you go in to the interview with a
positive attitude, you’ll have a good chance of getting the
job and keeping it.
On the other hand, a bad attitude can earn you the
reputation as being hard to work with. This causes people to
avoid you as much as possible. Why? Because unpleasant
people are seldom surrounded by people who care. If
you don’t realize this and make a change in your attitude, you
will be caught off guard when stuff happens and there will
be no one there to help.
How important is all this attitude stuff? Whether you are in
your own business, work for someone else, or just want to
develop and improve your personal life, you are only as
successful as your ability to create and maintain positive
The ability to manage your attitude is not only important to
people you work with, but it is also just as important to
your own self-development and personal advancement.
People with negative attitudes rarely advance in their jobs.
They think of themselves as being right and entitled to
success in spite of how they behave. They just can’t
understand why, when stuff happens, others move forward
while they continue to stay behind.
They usually succumb to a “victim” mentality, blaming
others, events, or bad luck for their failure. They don’t
realize that their own negative attitude caused
On the other hand, a good attitude enables us to turn even
the most difficult situations into constructive stepping-
stones, helping us to handle the most demanding challenges.
A positive attitude enlivens, uplifts, and moves us to
pursue great things.